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You’ve just triggered a memory. When I was a kid my mother had a bunch of those “how to parent” books. One in particular was written by a paediatrician and had a chapter on “elimination”. The author specifically claimed that newborn infants would commonly wake to urinate, often crying as they did so (because that’s what they do when they wake) BUT, in short time, they would learn to sleep through their urination events giving both them, and everybody else a better shot at sleep. In short, they learned to use their diapers and to tolerate being wet without waking. I’m convinced today that my own bedwetting is some echo of this lesson. -
Hi. I'm a 54y.o. gay man who loves to wear nappies/diapers. Where do you live and how old are you? Baby Myley -
By Don Incognito · Posted
Anything I should know about using that sort of pusher? That is, getting a straight rod into a passage that normally bends? -
If you read the story that I'm posting BRAT, you'll see my perspective on it. 1st of all, I don't think babies are incontinent the same way that we think being incontinent, with no sensation of either urge or voiding. I think babies feel sensation, but they don't know what to do with it. Releasing the bladder relieves the pain, so that's what they learn to do. I had a friend who specialized as a nanny with multiples, and part of getting a newborn to sleep through the night (critical for multiples) is training them to sleep through a wet diaper. 2nd: I think the process of potty training is mostly about conditioning their mind to wait until they are sitting on a toilet to relieve their bladder or empty their bowel. I remember the first time I tried to wet my diaper, or even wet the bed. I couldn't do it. I had to visualize being next to the toilet before I could pee in the diaper. It was so ingrained in my head (20 years of using the potty will do that to you. When you go 24/7, you are essentially retraining you mind where you should pee and poo. In my story, the caregiver is constantly telling protagonist that pee-pee and poo-poo goes in their diaper. RIght now, I'm at the stage where my bladder sends the signal, and my brain says "Stop bothering me, and do it." I'm sure I can be potty-trained again, but I don't want to. Since I don't have a desire to stop using diapers, I will sabotage any efforts to stop. I believe this is deeply rooted in my brain. If you choose to go 24/7 and start using diaper exclusively- which btw is really hard, you will have had so many opportunities to stop that by the time there is significant decline, it's 100% a conscience decision. It's more like making a career change, and going through all of the training to pass the bar, rather than buying a pack of gum. As for getting it back: i don't see why not. I know that they teach TBI patients how to independently use the toilet. If they can potty train a patient with a traumatic brain injury, I don't see why they can't do it for something who willing choose to become incontinent (use diapers). The reason some of us might not get it back is because deep down inside of us: we don't want to. -
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