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I don't contribute as much as I should, so I'd like to begin a topic I rarely ever see. I've been buying diapers in person for over 20 years now and when I think back, there were a lot of times where people made funny or interesting comments about it. Most of the time it came from the workers but occasionally another customer would chime in. I've got several of these to share so I'll post them as I remember more. I'd also love it if you would please share some of your experiences buying diapers in person! 1.) When I was first buying medical diapers, I found a cute medical supply store with two adorable older women who sold the incontinence products. That was an incredible experience. I sat down with both of them and after establishing the diapers were for me, they managed to get a lot more info than I expected to provide. We were in a room off to the side with a large medical bench/table, a few chairs, and a large basket with a whole lot of adult diaper samples. This place only carried Attends and Tranquility, which was fine because I had only tried Depends and store brand briefs up to this point. The Tranquility ATNs were among the better reputation diapers at the time, second only to the Abena Abri-Form X Plus. For context, the baby-blocks fronted original Bambino diapers were still quite new, so ATNs or Attends were realistically the best I could get. The ladies were very friendly and asked me how often I wear and use diapers so they could figure out how many I would need per month. I told them "I need one for overnight and I wear one during the day just in case" and one of the ladies immediately replied "so you use about 60 diapers a month," as she took a note. It was the first time I ever heard a voice that wasn't mine say that I use diapers in a definitive manner. She had me lift my shirt to take a waist measurement, which I wasn't expecting. I was wearing a pull-up that was extremely visible (I think we all know how absurdly high pull-up waist bands are.) Of course, both being professionals, neither said anything. I think it reminded one of a question they didn't ask because while I was being measured the other asked about volume and how "heavy of a wetter" I am. I answered that I need the most absorbancy possible for overnights, but can get away with lesser protection during the day. Then, she asked a question that pops into my head maybe once a week. She said before she picks some samples for me to try she needs to know if I "do any soiling in the diapers" or if it's "just wetting." (As an aside, I don't know why I hyper-focus on the phrasing she used but these are terms that really do it for me. I love mixing professional verbiage like briefs and soiling with the gentle mom language of phrases like "just wetting" and "how heavy." As if peeing my pants is no big deal. I can't get enough of the "It's no big deal he's just wetting" casual acceptance.) I had already let on more than I expected so I answered with what I wanted to be the truth, that the daytime protection is for soiling and only sometimes for wetting. The pull-ups I had on at the time were the Depends adjustable, which did actually come up the back a lot higher than any current depends pull-up and worked pretty well for moderate bowel containment, despite the lack of standing leg cuffs. She told me the Tranquility ATN is the best they have and she handed me two large and two XL samples, plus a few of the Slimline blue briefs and a few of their Select briefs. She said they should work well for my bedwetting and are the best available for "holding both your accidents." I told her I had heard about the ATNs and was looking forward to trying them and she said to call her in a week and let her know how well they performed. I should have called. I still can't believe I got to sit (on what was definitely a changing table) with two older women while they ask me about my embarrassing bedwetting and soiling accidents so they could pick out diapers for me. Easy top 5 diaper buying experience. 2.) Second time is basically an extension of the first but was a few weeks into me being a regular customer. There was a new policy (don't remember if Medicare or otherwise) that came through and basically disallowed the supply store from giving out free samples, so they had two large boxes of samples they couldn't give to their customers and asked me if I wanted them. She hand-trucked the two boxes to my car and as I was loading them in she said "just be aware that these ones are pretty bulky" and she made this motion with her hands behind her butt like expanding out to emphasize the bulkiness. I said it's not a problem for me and we both laughed at her gesture. It was so easy to be open with these two ladies because they were just so friendly and helpful. On days I was picking up diapers, I'd wear shorter t-shirts that barely covered my waistband. I loved that they knew. The shorter shirt meant when I loaded the boxes into my car I was showing several inches of ATN waistband. She definitely noticed because asked me about them and how they performed. I said they were much better than the Depends I had been using. I know it was just from working there, but she spoke like she had personal experience. "Definitely, the Tranquilities are much better than the Depends for bedwetting. They are also really good for handling number twos." I cannot overstate just how much I love the way she phrased things. I really miss buying diapers from those ladies. I saw a meme a while back about the "overly helpful medical supply store lady" and damn was it accurate. 3.) Buying Depends fitted briefs in a Wal-Mart maybe 15 years ago, I'm waiting for the terminal and the lady asks me if I want a bag. I said yes please, and a guy in his 50s behind me in line says "he doesn't want anyone to know he's buying Depends!" in a joking manner. He laughed, the cashier laughed, I nervously laughed. He said "hey you'll do a lot worse by the time you get to my age," and I still don't fully understand what that means lol. I imagine he was referring to actual crimes (because what else would it be?) but it's funny to imagine wearing diapers and shitting my pants not being one of the most embarrassing things in my life. As if I could be with friends talking about embarrassing moments and I would choose "I wear and soil adult diapers by choice" as my confession instead of something else. 4.) A CVS near my house was selling Depends booster pads, which I had never seen before. I carried a pack up to the counter and the cashier was around my age, early 20's or so. There were two girls hanging out to the side of the register talking with him as I walked up. He looks at them and said "these for you?" I said "I wish" and all of us laughed. I was glad to have thought of something in the moment because a Shooter McGavin style "NOo" would be a confession. 5.) I was in a Rite-Aid or CVS and standing in front of the incontinence section. An older lady is stocking the feminine hygiene stuff opposite the diapers and after I had been standing there for a sec looking at the products she said "my husband calls those pants bombers," and chuckled. I laughed and forget what my immediate response was but I remember after saying "I do wish they could hold more" and she kind of agreed! I wonder if her husband actually did wear "bomber pants"on occasion. I'm sure I'll remember more but I really want to hear some of your experiences! I haven't bought diapers or pads in person in a long time and I do miss the thrill and nervousness of plopping down a fat pack of adult diapers on the conveyor belt and buying them for myself. -
Thanks! i appreciate your attention to my photo and posting. You have a sharp eye, i did not see that detail. In the photo, the trainers are wet, including the butt, because my younger Dom Asian Husband keeps me wet all the time. i'm not deliberately wearing tight jeans; they are one larger than my waist size and feel firm but not tight. i will keep your comments in mind in case my Husband adds another trainer to my attire, for a total of three. In more than five years of wearing, i have not had any leaks with just two trainers and plastic pants, but my Husband is considering adding a third trainer for safety. In that case, i would follow your remarks and switch to larger 501s, probably two sizes larger. -
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one thing that has massively helped with the lull was too stop masterbating completely.., its been over a month now and my love for nappies and incontinence is strong, I'm more confident in myself and generally feel much more happiness and contentedness. Wearing 24/7 is much better than using the toilet, using a toilet is very unappealing now, using toilet paper etc. After I've had my daily bowel movements I can change and freshen up using my Skin cleaning foam and dry wipes with rash cream, it feeling more refreshing and I'm in a good routine so changing is easy.. I'm messing at the slightest urge now, my body has basically become synced with my eating habits so I mess soon after I've eaten and I don't clench, I feel like my bowel muscles are going faster then my bladder control, although I have a small bladder because I wet in small amounts every 20 minutes and its like 'gotta go now'. I'm also getting after dribble when I've had a gush.
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