Hi. I am a secretive DL who doesn't have much opportunity to wear nappies all the time. I would like to know if wearing nappies is associated with the problem of losing bladder control. I have read that using nappies for too long causes the urinary muscles to weaken which in turn leads to loss of continence control. Is this loss actually possible? Is it complete? Does it also happen to you out of control during the day or only during sleep at night?
I never wet the bed until 8 years ago, when I met my boyfriend (who wets the bed nightly) and he taught me how to wet the bed. I can't wear diapers at night like I do during the day, so he taught me how to enjoy being wet at night.
I don't wear diapers to bed as they affect my ability to sleep, and yes I wet the bed and so does my boyfriend. However we have a waterbed with normal sheets and blankets on,it's not a big deal for us as he does the laundry every day. Since I've be in diapers I don't flood them like I used to, when I feel the urge to go, I just let it happen, and I found that my diaper lasts longer. Basically my diaper can last me all day, and I get changed when my boyfriend gets home.