Poll: Wear A Diaper Or Have A Diapered Lover?

[BoTox]

OK, can't actually get the poll to work but that's the breaks.

POLL:

Would you rather wear a diaper yourself or have a diapered lover?

I actually think I'd prefer to have a diapered lover than wear myself. My personal use of diapers pretty much boils down to a need to be around diapers but an inability to manifest it with another person.

In my non diaper encounters, my desires have been satiated with my lover participating. My inability to introduce more complex items, such as diapers, was what led to me being a solo diaper user.

How about the rest of you? Any insights?

[BoTox]

Hmm, can't believe there were no comments on this one.

Nobody?

[CDLover]

OK - I'll bite...

I think on this one, this is where my little kid side comes out -

I want both!!

CDL

[BoTox]

There you go, I should have created an "all of the above" option.

[happyindprs]

Well speaking on behalf of every guy or gal that ever got involved with diaper wear, we all want participation from, our lovers, wives or boyfriend girlfriend relationships. With that being said, that doesn't necessarily mean that they wear too, just having them participate would be good enough,

When My wife and I got married she would put on a diaper once in a great while just to see what they were all about. For her it wasn't a turn-on. She commented that it made her feel too vulnerable. Given a choice as you stated above, I have mixed feelings. It's funny but I am just like everyone else here, I'm looking for friendship and understanding and acceptance about wearing and using diapers for their intended purpose.

I guess I prefer to be the one still in diapers because it works for me and keeps mu anchored to do other things. All I need is a little encouragement and acknowledgement every once in a while.

[DLBob717]

I agree with CDLover.....both!

[suzuki2011]

i want both. i wish sooo much that my gf wore diapers. or even accpeted them so i could tell er that i wear and maybe her be my mommy

[lilJester]

i have no choice in the wearing part. I would love to have a diaper lover though.

[Bettypooh]

Either, neither, or both All I want is more happiness and someone to share that with as they become happier too Everything else is irrelevant

Bettypooh

[kitty45]

wear a diaper..though curious

[drynot]

Well if I HAD to choose between the two options provided I would have to go with having a diapered lover. I tend towards the nurturing side of things anyway so I would definitely like to give it a try.

That said...I agree with most folks here. I like wearing diapers too. Having someone who genuinely shares that interest would be spectacular. I'm not trying to brag...but the scant few times I've spent with my wife and myself in diapers were absolute heaven.

[Three Rivers]

Wear a diaper! but am curious as well.

[joeldiaper]

both nothing like cuddling up to your s.o. in our diapers and useing them fou their intended purpouse all night wakeing up and changeing each other

[dlover49]

I would also like both. That would be awesome.

[sidc92]

like everyone else I want , both I want to wear diapers and have a girlfriend that does too.

[froggy]

I want diaper wearing friends and to wear them myself. I will be a pig, take both.

[anned]

both.

I like changing a girlfriends diaper as much as wearing

[Guest]

I honestly can't decide which is more important to me. I feel that I am much like BoTox, and just need to be around them to be satisfied. However, I tried the diapered lover thing and eventually caved into wearing the ones I bought for her. We take turns wearing and roleplaying--me more often than her--but I think if she were open to do it more often then I wouldn't need to wear as much or at all.

[BabyJune]

Wear only. I'm not into relationships and tend to be a loner. I'm a very private person.

[barney2005]

I just like wearing them, and I think if my boyfriend wore them too I wouldn't find it a turn on at all, strange!

[babymaggie]

I have both. I wear diapers and my husband/daddy wears diapers also.

[Guest Lil_Lilo]

I prefer to be the diapered one in the relationship. I like for daddy to be big and strong. His image in my head is that of my protector. This image is hard to hang on to when daddy is a sissy boy.

That being said. I am reasonable and daddy can wear occasionally. I would prefer not but can put up with on occasion. I want daddy to be happy too!

[nappylover78]

While I love wearing myself, I'd like more than anything to experience having a female partner in them (and wetting of course!)

[Rockies Fan in Diapers]

Hmm, for me this is a really tough decision, but I think I'd have to go with Wearing a Diaper & not having a Diaper Lover if forced to choose, although I would ultimately prefer both. I would have to say wear a diaper if choosing, because one thing that I feel that I lack is that of being nurtured, & thus I would find it hard to nurture someone else,

Rockies Fan.

[Diaperfox792]

Ok, it's fantasy time! I will ALWAYS prefer to be the diaper wearer rather than the diaper appreciator. However, like many people have already said, I want both! My ideal would be to have a husband who is into wearing and using diapers and wants me in diapers too. We would wear together; diapers would be part of our 24/7 life. We would occasionally change each other but for the most part take care of our own changes. We would also make love centered around diapers and bondage. Alternately I would accept a guy who doesn't wear but loves to see me wear and use diapers and occasionally "forces" me to wear them 24/7 for extended period of time, perhaps using some device to make it impossible for me to take off my diaper. Unfortunately, I am currently unattached...